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20.08.25

The Secret to Pairing a Split Shank Engagement Ring With the Perfect Wedding Band

Freedom to be, open, airy space—a commanding presence, all alone. You’re thinking of splitting – your engagement ring, that is, and we can understand why. The split shank engagement ring is the cool girl of engagement rings, after all. But with an engagement ring so visually commanding, how do you pair it? Not to fret. We know a thing or two about what makes a great pair (and not just when it comes to diamond shapes). Class is now in session.


What Is a Split Shank Engagement Ring?

Unlike politicians, engagement ring settings are pretty straightforward. A three stone engagement ring is defined by its three stones. A solitaire, like the card game of the same name, has a central gemstone that plays solely by itself. And a hidden halo style features, well, a hidden halo. So, it should come as no surprise that a split shank engagement ring is a type of engagement ring that contains a split shank as opposed to a singular unending shank.

And by the way, when we refer to the word shank, we’re talking about the anatomical part of your engagement ring, AKA the band of metal that circles your finger, not a shady way to off someone in prison. Thus, your split shank is simply a split metal band (aka shank) that connects at your diamond.

The Great Split

The split shank setting made its debut during the Victorian era alongside other now everyday wedding traditions, such as wearing a white dress and proposing with a diamond ring. The setting was adored not only for its stylish design but for its practicality. Splitting the shank creates more space, and more space means more room for precious diamonds and gemstones. Something the Victorians wanted to take full advantage of, thanks to the increased availability of precious stones after the 1866 discovery of South African diamond mines.

A huge pro of the split shank? How stylishly it melds designs! Here, a custom cathedral setting is accentuated by an arching split shank for a super sculptural look we can’t get enough of. Want to design your own custom split shank engagement ring? Simply, take our easy ring quiz and you’ll receive a custom, free sketch of your dream ring made real.
Go modern with a super open split shank setting. Whether you choose an east west set emerald or north south set oval, you really can’t go wrong!

Design Characteristics of Split Shank Engagement Rings

We know the defining feature of a split shank engagement ring is its split shank. But there are usually some cohesive characteristics that make a split shank engagement ring undeniably a split shank.

Metals and Diamond Shapes That Compliment Split Shank Designs

A major pro of split shank engagement rings is their endless versatility. Truly. Any diamond shape shines here. Our personal favorite? Diamond shapes with sharp corners and edge. Think: Emerald cut diamonds paired with baguette stunners, or princesses and Asscher’s that effortlessly turn eyes. And pro tip: turn those square cuts 90 degrees for a kite setting that plays oh-so-nice with visual space.

Then there’s the metal. Yellow gold is classic, but white or platinum adds that undeniable sheen. Then there’s rose gold – pink, dreamy, and romantic, pair a rose cut diamond with a rose gold split shank setting for ultimate rom com vibes.

The way a Marquise diamond complements a split shank engagement ring, like in The Solo | Marquise, is simply divine. Chefs kiss. 100% We have no notes.

Are Split Shank Engagement Rings Popular Today?

Popular is an understatement. The split shank engagement ring is having a major moment. And it’s not just because it’s near impossible to tear your eyes away from the setting – it’s also deeply symbolic. The two bands represent the coming together of two lives into one, a sentimental, sweet, and sparkly take on a forever type of love. Then, there’s the never-ending customization options. You want a thin split shank band studded with pave like Beyoncé or Brittany Mahomes? Can do. Or maybe, you want to combine styles by crowning your stone with a halo like Jamie Cheung, can do that too. Really, the world is your oyster, and instead of a pearl, the split shank engagement ring is your treasure.

The Wedding Band Challenge: Why Pairing Isn’t Always Simple

Despite their popularity, the split shank engagement ring poses one small problem. That is, an at-times headache-inducing process of figuring out what wedding band style pairs best. Thanks to its unique design complexity, wedding bands that you think would pair well appear, well, off. Curved bands create more space. Straight bands get lost. Flush stacking? Forget about it. What’s a split shank lover to do? Well, a few things actually…

An emerald cut solitaire, split shank engagement ring with yellow gold bezel setting is paired with a softly curved wedding band with five graduating inset diamonds
No, mixing metals is not a fashion faux pas. In fact, we’d be so bold to say that it’s actually one of our favorite ways to stack rings. Case in point? This custom emerald cut split shank in yellow gold and white gold High Tide wedding band.

How to Choose the Perfect Wedding Band for Split Shank Ring

Curating your perfect wedding band stack with a split shank engagement ring is really quite easy to do. It all starts with a simple question: Do you want to complement the design of your engagement ring, or should you contrast it? And no, when we talk about matching, we don’t mean finding a split shank wedding band. We’re talking matching the style and vibes of your ring. Consider this: if your split shank features a glittering, thin, diamond-detailed shank, you can carry that energy over to your wedding band by opting for a timeless eternity-style band. Or, if your dream ring flies high with wide open spaces, frame it with delicate and minimalistic stacking rings for chic sparkle.

On the other hand, you can contrast the design of your ring. Thin shanks look especially delicate when paired with chunkier wedding bands and minimalist designs pop when placed next to loud bling. You could even go one step further by mixing and matching metals or diamond shapes for the ultimate contrast. From here, the only question you have to ask yourself is what style of band most floats your boat.

Peaked Bands

A split shank engagement ring often shows off a diamond that extends past the shank, like ovals, elongated cushions, emeralds, and more. Because of this, we love pairing split shank rings with graceful arched bands. The band’s peak visually draws the eye to the stone without overshadowing the ring’s design. Plus, with a variety of curves, you can go for dramatic points to romantic dips, and everything in between.

An oval cut engagement ring with two sparkling pear cut side stones. Above it, a peaked pave diamond wedding band
Contrast is your friend. Pairing a rounder diamond shape like oval, round, or elongated cushion with the clean lines of a peaked pave band make for a seamless look that doesn’t skip a beat.

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A yellow gold, split shank engagement ring with wide split shank that encircles the finger. An emerald cut diamond sits on top. It's paired with an eternity band.
Got a lot of space? A busy diamond band can complement it!

Eternity Bands

Featuring a continuous line of sparkling diamonds, an eternity band adds just the right amount of shine to any ring stack. When combined with an ultra-open split shank, it anchors the set, offering texture, sparkle, and a balanced weight that perfectly complements your split shank.

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Chunky Wedding Bands

On the other hand, if you prefer a split shank with smaller open space, consider pairing it with a chunky or textured wedding band. Not only does a chunky band perfectly contrast the delicate nature of the shank, it provides visual interest while highlighting your stone. Talk about a win-win!

A solitaire, oval cut diamond with mini split shank is paired with our Lasagna band - a chunky gold band that resembles dried lasagna sheets
What’s better than love? Carbs, of course. Just call us Nonna cause we’re cooking up precious Capellini, Rigatoni, Barbine, and more.

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Two open band wedding bands with graduating round brilliant diamonds. One is rose gold and the other is white gold
While you can totally wear an open band as your primary wedding band, we love the look of a multi-ring stack. Think: Engagement ring, an open band, and a sleek eternity band.

Open Bands

One thing to keep in mind when shopping for wedding bands is the profile of your engagement ring. High profile rings stand loud and proud with an elevated stone setting that keeps your diamond high. Low profile rings, on the other hand, keep things low, and sometimes even flush to the finger. There are pros and cons to both but when it comes to flush stacking, it can, sometimes be tricky to pair a low profile ring with a band.

Enter the open band. These babies employ a nifty trick where a small gap creates the perfect nook for your central diamond to rest, creating the illusion of a flush stack. And when stacked with a second band, gap bands tend to take second fiddle, allowing your second band and engagement ring to be the stars of any finger gun show (bisexuals, we’re looking at you).

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Don’t Worry, Professional Help Is Here

So, you know how to pair your split shank engagement ring. But what happens if you’re looking for that extra touch of customer service? Well, that’s where we come in. First, there’s the timeless ‘q’ of when you should get professional pairing help. And really, there’s no time like the present, we think. So, start early. Talk to your engagement ring designer about your dream stack and they’ll help you design a ring profile, diamond shape, and style that perfectly brings your dream to stunning reality. Or if you already have an engagement ring and are finding it difficult to pair, consider a custom-made wedding band. Simply schedule an online or in-person consultation, and our bespoke ring designers will tweak your favorite band to perfect new stacking heights.

FAQSs About Split Shank Rings and Wedding Bands

What band goes best with a split shank ring?

When it comes to pairing a band with a split shank ring, the goal is balance and style without stealing the spotlight. An eternity band, with its endless row of sparkling diamonds, is a natural choice. Why? Because it adds texture and brilliance that playfully mirror the openness of the split shank, creating a cohesive yet eye-catching look. The continuous sparkle of the eternity band anchors the design, offering just the right amount of depth and weight to complement the airy feel of the split shank.

Prefer a minimalist vibe? Try a slim, pavé diamond band. Its delicate profile won’t overpower, but it still brings a touch of shimmer. For something a little bolder, consider mixing in contrasting metals or textures—a chic twist that adds personality. The key is finding a band that enhances, not competes. Think harmony, not hustle.

A super wide split shank engagement ring in platinum with a diagonally placed, prong set pear cut diamond
A split shank oval cut engagement ring in yellow gold sits atop a ridged wedding band
Drop us a line at hello@frankdarling.com and we’ll help you find the perfect wedding band to your split shank.

Can you wear a straight band with a split shank ring?

Absolutely, you can pair a straight band with a split shank ring—a fashion-forward move that melds tradition with a modern twist. The juxtaposition of a classic straight band against the dynamic architecture of a split shank doesn’t just work; it sings. It’s all about creating a little tension in the ensemble, like wearing sneakers with a formal dress.

By choosing a straight band, you introduce a sleek, clean line that offsets the intricate openness of the split shank, a chic contrast for those who dare to mix it up. This mix-and-match approach is a refreshing nod to personal style, allowing individuality to shine. It’s a little edgy, a little unexpected, and entirely stylish.

The final effect? A complement that doesn’t echo but still belongs, like the perfect dialogue between two distinct design voices. Ready to make a statement? This is how you resonate, not replicate.

Are split shank rings trendy or timeless?

Split shank rings elegantly dance on the line between trendy and timeless, striking a perfect chord of enduring style with a contemporary flair. But here’s the chic twist: they are, fundamentally, a classic design that’s been beguiling admirers for generations. Yet, they possess an adaptability that keeps them fresh and on the pulse of fashion.

Imagine a split shank ring as the little black dress of the jewelry world. Just as the dress can be reinvented season after season with new textures, cuts, and accessories, so can the split shank ring adapt, making a statement that feels both current and enduring. Whether it’s the bold openness of the design, the intricate detailing, or the way they offer a canvas for diamonds to sparkle even more, split shank rings have mastered the art of staying relevant.

So, are they trendy or timeless? They’re both. Split shank rings are a sartorial chameleon, evolving with the times while holding firm to their timeless roots.

A kite set Asscher cut diamond with open split shank and white gold setting
Kite set Asscher cut diamonds draw the eye for a classic look that feels as trendy and en vogue as it is timeless.
A seven stone engagement ring with central emerald cut diamond and three glittering baguette cut stones on either side
Want that big diamond glow? Opt not only for elongated styles but also consider framing your ring with a sparkling set of side stones for full finger coverage.

Do split shank rings make diamonds look bigger?

Yes, split shank rings have a clever design trick: they create the illusion of a larger diamond. How? It’s all about framing. The split shank—where the band separates into two or more strands—draws the eye outward, adding visual real estate to the setting. That openness creates a spotlight effect, making the center stone appear bigger and more impressive. It’s basically the optical illusion equivalent of the diamond world.

But it doesn’t stop there. The extra space around the diamond amplifies light and sparkle, while the architectural design lends a sense of grandeur. Whether you’re working with a modest-sized stone or a showstopper, the split shank naturally elevates the diamond, giving it a “look at me” presence without overpowering the ring’s overall aesthetic.

So, if you’re after a style that maximizes wow-factor without upsizing your budget, a split shank ring might be your best-kept secret.

Can I resize a split shank ring easily?

Ah, the question of resizing a split shank ring—a task both possible and precarious, like threading a needle while wearing gloves. The split shank’s design, characterized by its split band that delicately frames the center gem, adds a layer of complexity to the resizing process. It’s not as straightforward as resizing a simple band, but it’s far from impossible for a skilled jeweler.

Resizing a split shank ring often requires a meticulous hand and an eye for preserving the ring’s integrity, design, and balance. The jeweler must ensure that the adjustments do not distort the elegant split or affect the setting of the stone. It’s akin to adjusting a haute couture gown—precision is key.

An emerald cut engagement ring with open split shank and yellow gold setting
Resizing engagement rings can be a relatively simple affair, but some styles, like eternity bands or certain low profile bands, can’t be resized. Remember, it’s always best to measure twice to save yourself the cut!

Final Thoughts: Finding the Perfect Match for Your Unique Ring

Remember, darling, at the end of the day, the only opinion that matters is yours. So stay true to you. Whether your ring stack features delicate diamonds with peaked, graceful points or chunky, textured gold in an homage to pasta, if you love your ring, you can’t go wrong. And with the perfect balance of chic style, all-day comfort, and enduring symbolism, you can rest knowing that your split shank ring stack is as timeless as it is trendy. Ready to get started? Schedule an online or in-person consultation at any of our nationwide showrooms today, design the split shank ring of your dreams with our easy-to-use quiz, or simply drop us a line to say hi. We’re not afraid to split hairs as we walk you through split shanks -if you catch our drift.

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Molly

Currently blending luxury with lexicon to pen, edit, and manage the Frank Darling journal, Molly has written for VRAI, Clean Origin, and Olivia Ewing Jewelry. A lover of all things sparkly (including disco balls), she prefers portrait, step, and vintage cut diamonds with warm champagne hues.