The bigger the diamond, the more beautiful, right? Wrong. There’s SO MUCH more to a sparkly diamond than its size—like cut quality, color, clarity, etc. If you’re reading this, you’re probably already reciting the 4 Cs in your sleep. Besides, all sizes really can be beautiful.

First of all, no matter how many carats you buy, there’s nothing truly practical about a diamond ring. Diamond rings are about love, and display, and luxury. Practicality has nothing to do with it. That said, if you’re in the market for a sizable sparkler, then we’re here to help. A purchase of that size isn’t made lightly, so we’ve compiled a few positive affirmations to help convince you—or, you know, whoever is footing the bill.