
06.05.22
Diamond Stud Earrings: Boring or Jewelry Staple?
By Stephanie Dore
Whether itâs your favorite puffer, a perfectly worn pair of denim, or a crisp white shirt, boring fashion is kind of a thing. I mean, normcore is real, yâall. So when it comes to the seemingly endless debate over whether diamond stud earrings are a forever staple or out of style, can you guess where we stand? Well, if you guessed staple, youâd be 100% right, darling. Diamond stud earrings might at first glance seem like a total snoozefest but they really do act like a great pair of jeans. Which means it all comes down to personal style. Hereâs everything you need to know about designing your dream pair of diamond studs. And probably more.
If the Diamond Stud Fits
First of all, letâs get everyoneâs favorite question out of the way. Does size matter? Short answer is yes, it matters because itâs one of the biggest components of diamond pricing. But beyond that, diamond size (in laypersonâs terms: carat weight) is all about personal preference. The biggest rule of thumb about sizing for earrings is remembering that the total carat weight will be split in half, so you need to think about how large you want each diamond.
While thereâs a nice plateau of popularity at 1 carat total weight (thatâs œ carat in each ear), if youâre going for a standalone look that you want to, well, stand out, youâre probably going to want to up your carat weight a bit. Going up to 1 carat per ear (2 carat total weight) is still totally doable for everyday style. If youâve got lots of piercings and will wear your studs with other earrings, then you might prefer a daintier style. Remember that different shapes also appear differently sized, for instance ovals have a lot of visual spread and will appear about 15-20% larger than a comparable weight round diamond.


Your Money Matters
Speaking of pricing, setting your budget should really be one of the first things you do, especially if youâre going the custom route. Remember that while diamond prices jump at the full carat mark, when youâre buying earrings youâre purchasing two stones and total carat weight wonât jump in the same way. Youâll still want to keep in mind the individual weight and pricing of each stone. For instance, if you want about 1 carat in each ear, you can still shop shy (going for a .90 carat stone in each ear) to save. You can also stretch your budget by shopping for fancy shapes (rounds are always more expensive), lower color and clarity grades, or even a different type of stone altogether!
The Real Deal
When we say different stone types, weâre still talking diamonds! Yes, there are natural mined diamonds, but thereâs also the lab. And yes, lab created diamonds are in fact real diamonds. Just like ice occurs in nature but you can also make it in your freezer at home, diamonds can be created by humans. Maybe not at home, but by humans nonetheless. Lab created diamonds are physically, chemically, and optically exactly the same material as mined diamonds, and can cost up to 40% less. Thatâs nothing to sneeze at. If youâre open to other stone ideas thereâs also Moissanite, which has been used as a diamond simulant (basically a lookalike) for years, and is also made in the lab, but is coming into popularity in its own right. Moissanite has a slightly different sparkle than diamond (more rainbow flash, in fact) and a slightly lower price tag.

Go On a Fancy Diamond Shape Spree
Sure, most of us probably picture some simple round diamonds when we picture diamond stud earrings. Or perhaps some princess cuts (aka squares). But like we said, fancy shapes can save you money and give your studs an extra punch of personality. We adore an oval diamond stud earring, a sophisticated emerald cut, an Art Deco-y Asscher, or even some super modern baguettes. Yes, baguettes! You really can go wild with shapes and think outside the box here, especially if youâre going totally custom.
The Diamond Stud Earring Styles for the Ages
Once youâve picked your stones out, choosing a setting style is the next step. And yes, there are choices. So. Many. Choices. Thereâs the classic prong setting, for instance, but it doesnât stop there. Letâs look at a few:
The 4 Prong Basket: This is your good âol standard. It works for most shapes (if you pick a pear cut diamond, this would be a 3-prong basket), and is super secure, with an added horizontal bar that supports those tiny prongs. You can, however, get a little custom with the prong tips themselves, choosing between more rounded or pointed claw prongs, for instance.
The 4 Prong Martini: A martini setting is a bit more modern than the classic basket, with a side view that is cone shaped like, you guessed it, a martini glass, rather than the more straight up and down prongs of a basket style. Itâs a little less metal-forward and sometimes youâll see them with 4 or 3 prongs.
The 6 Prong Woven: This intricate earring setting style almost looks like a fancy crown, with 6 small prong tips visible from the top and a basket that has a woven texture of overlapping prongs. Itâs super secure but is a bit more metal heavy than, say, a martini.
The Full Bezel: A bezel setting has a rim of metal that fully surrounds your diamondâs circumference, making it by far the most secure setting available. It has a crisp, modern look and can be created for any shape of diamond you choose.
The Half Bezel: The half- or semi-bezel setting is one of our favorites. Itâs still very secure, yet gives you a bit more open look than a full bezel, clutching your diamond between two sides of metal.
If you want to fancy up any of these setting styles, you can also choose to do a halo diamond setting, diamond prongs, or any number of other designs. Have ideas? Let our designers know and we can work with you on a completely unique earring design that suits your personal tastes.
The Heaviest Metal
Choosing a metal for your diamond stud earrings is also an important part of the design process. First of all, there is gold or platinum. Platinum is hypoallergenic and naturally bright white. Gold comes in several colors, including yellow, white and rose gold, and either 14 or 18 karat. When it comes to earrings, they donât take nearly as much hard wear as, say, a ring, so any of these options will stand the test of time assuming you take care. One of the biggest reasons to choose white gold or platinum is if you are choosing a very high color grade, or colorless, diamond â so that you donât distract from that colorlessness with a warm metal. If you choose a warmer stone, however, yellow or rose gold can really complement that.

Anytime, Anywhere
The beauty of diamond stud earrings is that they make one of the best jewelry gifts for just about any occasion. Special birthdays, anniversaries, graduations and promotionsâŠyou name it. You donât have to know anyoneâs ring size (just that they have pierced ears) and even itty bitty ones are something sparkly to look at. But theyâre totally something you can buy for yourself too. They go with literally everything, from the board room to a ballroom, and are gender neutral too.
Picking Your Perfect Pair of Diamond Studs
Ready to shop for your own diamond stud earrings? You can explore our diamond search where you can view 360-degree images of more than 10,000 diamonds to get some inspo then email our team with what youâre looking for at hello@frankdarling.com and we can curate some super special pairs just for you. Or book a virtual or offline appointment at our New York salon to view certified lab-grown and natural diamonds in person.