
15.03.22
Gemstone Hardness Scale- From Daily Durability to Proceed with Caution
By Stephanie Dore
Youâre a little rough around the edges. And thatâs ok. Maybe you trip over your own two feet, or drop your phone a lot, or forget your keys. Maybe you fall and skin your knee. Or drop things down the garbage disposal. Itâs called life, and we highly recommend reveling in every minute of it. What we donât want to do though, is ruin our most precious valuables in the process. Because, you know, money. And memories, of course. One of those valuables, to state the obvious, is your jewelry. And while diamonds are certainly hard, it might come as a shock to some that they are not, in fact, indestructible. Not to worry, thereâs a little thing called the Mohs scale of mineral hardness (aka a gemstone hardness scale) to help you figure out just which gemstones will stand up to life and which ones might require you proceed with a bit more caution.Â

Nothing New
Testing how hard (or soft) the world around is isnât anything new. I mean, we all do this as kids, right, trying to break or scratch things with other things. No? Just us? Well, thatâs a different post. But on the subject â the earliest notation of scratching minerals against each other to compare their hardness was noted around 300 BC. But it wasnât until 1822 when German geologist and mineralogist Friedrich Mohs created his namesake scale.
What it Is
So this scale, which is pretty much the standard as far as grading the hardness of gemstones in the jewelry industry, ââis based on the ability of one natural sample of mineral to scratch another mineral visibly. Yep, simple stuff really. On a scale of 1 (soft) to 10 (hard), does one rock scratch another rock? What the Mohs scale does not tell us, however, is a gemstoneâs toughness. Whatâs the difference? Hardness is all about that surface stuff, scratchability. Toughness is more about inner strength, compressibility, elongation…can it stand up to impact versus surface scratches. This is important, but weâll circle back.
The other thing to note about the Mohs scale is that itâs a 1â10 scale but the numbers do not fall at even intervals in terms of hardness. For example, the difference in hardness between a sapphire (9) and diamond (10) is much greater than a quartz (7) and a topaz (8).


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But this isnât one of them. So, diamonds are a 10 on the Mohs scale of hardness. They are the hardest natural material on Earth, and can, well, scratch anything. This hardness is one of the properties (besides its sparkle, duh) that makes diamonds so perfect for everyday wear, whereas a softer stone might get nicked by the little things we donât really notice and eventually become dull, a diamond wonât. That little thing will stay nice and shiny for its whole life if properly taken care of. And yes, this includes lab grown diamonds (which are real diamonds)!
Hereâs where it gets tricky. Diamond is hard, but it is definitely not tough. In fact, its rigid crystal structure means that if struck at a certain angle, perhaps a point, or along itâs thin girdle edge, a diamond is quite susceptible to breakage. Which is different from scratching. This is why shapes with points have prongs to protect them. Itâs also why you shouldnât wear your diamond jewelry, say, rock climbing. Diamonds can also scratch themselves, remember, which matters when you are wearing stacked rings with exposed diamond edges and when you store your jewelry for safekeeping. Just keep things separated and youâll be all gravy.
A Second Sparkler
If youâre thinking about an alternative to diamond for your engagement ring and want to keep it sparkly and bright but still super durable, look no further than Moissanite. This stunner is actually a 9.25 on the Mohs scale, so youâre barely making a sacrifice. And TBH, itâs more sparkly than diamond. Yeah, yeah, we know. Not the same. See Moissanite has a different kind of sparkle, one that errs on the rainbow flash side of things instead of diamondâs bright black and white pattern of brilliance. But still. We love, love, love Moissanite for everyday wear and itâll save you a pretty penny when it comes to getting more gemstone for your money.

Two of A Kind
The next step down from all that brilliance, is corundum at a 9 on the Mohs scale. Now, you probably know this crazy cool stone by the name of say, sapphire, perhaps? Well, guess what darling, itâs ruby too! Thatâs right, sapphire and ruby are actually the same stone! Yes, theyâre both corundum, just different colors. We know, itâs nuts. The other cool thing? A 9 is still totally acceptable for day to day wear in any of your fave jewelry pieces. Sapphires and rubies are, of course, super popular, but also super durable.
Eating Green
While absolutely sumptuous, we donât suggest taking a bite out of your favorite emerald. At a 7.5-8 on the Mohs scale, theyâre still harder than your teeth! For reference, tooth enamel is about a 5! Itâs about at the 7-8 level that you should start paying a bit more attention to how youâre wearing your gemstones, as the durability starts to get a little too soft for everyday, carefree wear. What do we mean? We mean, consider putting softer stones in jewelry pieces that donât take as much wear, say pendants and earrings, whereas bracelets and especially rings take more of the brunt. But, yes, you can definitely still wear these stones in a ring if youâd like. Just make sure to take it off if youâre doing anything active and consider setting it lower profile, perhaps in a bezel…just something a bit more protective.

And Other Things
Topaz (8), aquamarine (7.5-8), spinel (8), and morganite (7.5-8) are all similar in terms of hardness, which gives you some seriously fun color options to choose from and still feel pretty okay about their everyday durability. From the palest blue to blushing peach to deep reds and browns and more, thereâs a wide world of colorful gemstones out there.
But itâs as you get into this range of semi-precious gems that extra caution becomes important. Quartz, which includes both amethyst and citrine, is a 7 on the Mohs scale, as is tourmaline. Youâll often see these stones set in earrings and pendants instead of rings for exactly this durability concern. The same goes for tanzanite and peridot as well, which lean toward 6.5, and this is about as low as we suggest going for your âregular wearâ jewelry.
The Softer Side
Hereâs where it gets a little tricky. There are still plenty of beautiful gems that are lower on the scale than this. For instance, what about the stunningly iridescent opal, which is a 5.5-6.5 on the scale? Yes, you can for sure wear opal jewelry. You just have to be extra mindful about knocking it around, how you store it, and what substances you expose it to. The same goes for moonstone (6-6.5), turquoise (5-6), and most of all pearls, which are way down the scale at 2.5-4.5! Yes, youâll see them all in jewelry, and weâre not saying no, weâre just saying: carefully. Think about how these stones are set, keep them away from other stones or hard surfaces that could scratch them, and protect them during both wear and storage from substances like lotions and perfumes as these can enter their more porous surfaces and damage their beauty.


Circling
We said weâd come back to it, so here we are. Now that you know everything about gemstone hardness, itâs time to talk about what else matters. Yep, you heard us correctly, hardness isnât the only thing you need to worry about when it comes to gemstone durability for your daily life. That toughness thing comes into play, as does a gemstoneâs internal structure, its inclusions, its treatments…you kind of need to know it all. Why? Well, toughness is great if youâre looking for a stone to carve, like jade or onyx, instead of a faceted, harder sapphire or diamond. The slightly softer surface makes carving easier, which is why youâll see softer stones used for cameos or beads.
Inclusions come into play when they create a weak point in the gemstoneâs structure. Heavily included stones might have inclusions that reach the surface or create more vulnerabilities, like a ding in the windshield that could eventually split if hit in just the right spot. This applies to things like emeralds, which are ok durability-wise, but also tend to have more inclusions. Or salt and pepper diamonds which are basically all inclusion. Treatments can also leave a stone more susceptible to breakage, so make sure you know exactly what youâre buying.
Is Your Mind Swimming?
Want to go for something colorful but we just totally freaked you out? Not to worry, weâve got experts on hand to help you dive in. You can start with our little style quiz to design your own custom gemstone engagement ring or wedding set. Or reach out to our team at hello@frankdarling.com (yes, thatâs our direct line) and weâll get you all sorted. No pressure, no commission, all color.