18.09.24

The 10 Year Anniversary Stone You Need to Be Gifting for the Big 1-0

So, darlings, you’ve made it to a decade. Ten whole years of “Did you remember to take out the trash?” and “Babe, where’s my phone charger?” That’s a pretty big deal. Kind of like hitting the “level up” button in the video game of life. You’ve tackled everything—dating, moving in together, new jobs, probably a few moves, maybe some kids, and of course there’s the in-laws. All causes for celebrating the Big 1-0 with a big shiny 10 year anniversary stone.

But what on earth do you get for a partner who’s been with you through thick, thin, and all the TikTok dance challenges in between? We’re here to help, of course. So let’s break down both the traditional and modern symbols and gifts for the 10th anniversary and see if we can’t get you sorted.

The Traditional 10th Anniversary Symbol: Tin or Aluminum

Okay, so I know what you’re thinking. Tin? Aluminum? Is this some kind of new marriage recycling program? But hear me out. Tin and aluminum may not sound glam, but they symbolize strength and flexibility—you know, just like your marriage. These metals don’t rust (just like you two haven’t!) and are tough yet adaptable, able to bend without breaking. Unassuming but totally reliable.

If tin or aluminum has your heart rin-a-tin-tinning consider items that says, “I love you” more than an insta post, perhaps? Buying your lover some tin or aluminum jewelry sounds interesting, sure, but maybe instead of an entire piece, you find them a customized tin charm they can add to a more solid gold necklace or bracelet, something that says “I love you” more than an Insta post, perhaps? Add the date or a special secret message engraved on the back.

The other thing we love is a tin time capsule, where you gather up mementos from your first decade together—a good use for all those old concert tickets and embarrassing photos—and keep them until the next big anni.

A white gold radiant cut engagement ring with split shank shoulders — Consider alluding to tin while paying homage to diamond by incorporating white gold or platinum into your ring design. Sure, it’s *not* tin but it is a whole lot nicer.

The Official 10 Year Anniversary Stone: Diamond

Now, this is where things get sparkly. While tin and aluminum are great for showing off your relationship’s resilience, diamonds are all about the sparkle. They’re hard—just like marriages—but also stunning, which of course your wedded bliss is. Diamonds are forever, after all, and nothing says “I’m committed” quite like a shiny rock that took billions of years to form. While a diamond anniversary band is a bet on the safe side, there are other diamond jewelry gifts that should do the trick with added personality. Here are our favorites:

Diamond anniversary bands

A diamond anniversary band is probably the most traditional way folks commemorate ten years of marriage. Whether that’s upgrading your original wedding band, adding one to your ring stack, or even one to go on a different finger. It’s meaningful, symbolizes a decade of love and commitment, and gives your partner some new sparkle to show off all at the same time.

An anniversary band can be anything, so choose a style that complements their unique personality and existing jewelry but has a little something extra (whether that’s extra carats, a unique engraving, or a chunkier style) to reflect the moment.

A five stone platinum anniversary band. Five similar sized emeralds are bar set next to each other. — When it comes to anniversary bands, the world is your oyster! From big brilliance to understated and sparkly, you truly can’t go wrong.

A hand wears an eternity band of emeralds in a patch of sunlight — Eternity bands are romantic gifts that promise your partner you’ll be there through the thick and thin of it all, and to-well, eternity and beyond.

Diamond eternity bands

If you want to really go all out, consider giving them a diamond eternity band. This style, which has diamonds going all the way around the band, can represent your love story—never ending. It might be a slender eternity band with a single row of diamonds, a big, chunky diamond eternity ring that rocks all the carats, or a wide eternity band that’s made up of several rows of small diamonds for major sparkle.

10 year anniversary stone earrings

One of the chicest gifts that never goes out of style is a pair of versatile diamond stud earrings. If your partner already has a pair, maybe a bigger pair or a different shape or style is in order. If they don’t, then choose one that suits your budget, in a shape they love (round diamond studs are the most classic but we love ovals and Asschers aplenty), and a metal that goes with everything. It’s a surefire way to light up their face, and smile.

A Gumdrop emerald cut earring — Diamond earrings aren’t just classy and chic, they’re also versatile. We love dressing up a casual outfit with the glint of sparkle!

Diamond tennis bracelets

What on earth is this? Well, a diamond tennis bracelet is like an eternity band for the wrist. It has a row of diamonds that goes all the way around and adds major luxe to any look. It definitely says “You’re the love of my life,” while also giving her plenty of sparkle she can add to any outfit, jeans and a t-shirt or formal attire alike.

Diamond pendants

A diamond pendant is also a great option for an anniversary gift. It’s something that marks the moment that your person can wear every day. Like diamond stud earrings, diamond pendants are available in many different shapes and styles. You can go with a classic round diamond pendant in a simple prong setting, a modern emerald cut in an east-west bezel, or something with a bit more style that frames the diamond in gleaming, modern gold.

the 10 year anniversary stone, diamond, on a pendant — Just a little (or not so little) something to remind your partner you love them.

Mix It Up: The 10 Year Anniversary Stone and Tin

Why choose between tin and diamonds when you can have both? Mix it up, darlings. You’re ten years in, so you know it’s all about compromise. Plus, combining traditional and modern gifts can make for a more memorable and meaningful celebration. Picture this: You whip up a romantic dinner using aluminum foil (maybe some fancy grilled salmon or a tin-foil-wrapped dessert). Then, surprise your partner with a diamond gift. It’s like one of those rom-com montages—only you’re living it!

A three stone round brilliant engagement ring — The Trilogy | Rounds

a three stone engagement ring with a central emerald cut diamond and tapered, east west set baguettes — The Lunette | Three Stone

Practical Tips for your Anniversary Celebration

Alright, y’all. We’ve covered the gifts, but there’s also how to deliver it. I mean, you probably spent a ton of time on your original proposal, so why not put a little extra love into how you present that major, well, present.

Here are some pro tips:

1. Plan ahead

Don’t wait until the day before your anniversary to start thinking about a gift. We’ve all been there, but trust me, it’s not worth the stress (or the silent treatment).

A baguette stone anniversary band — Planning ahead allows you the ability to ensure the perfect gift. So take some time and put some thought into your 10-year anniversary!

A prong set round engagement ring with the following engraved inside: KK <3 CC — Not sure what to engrave on your ring? We’ve got you covered.

2. Personalize it

Whatever you choose, make it personal. An engraved piece of jewelry or a custom art piece shows you put in the extra effort. And we all know effort is sexy.

3. Listen to hints

If your partner has been dropping hints, pick them up! They’re like little love breadcrumbs leading you to the perfect gift.

There ain’t no shame in the hint-dropping game. Especially when dropping hints gets you whirling round brilliant dazzle!

Our favorite way to wrap a gift? In FD’s signature blue, of course. Because pretty things come in small boxes.

4. Remember the Wrapping

Presentation matters, folks. Wrap that gift up like it’s the Holy Grail of anniversary presents. Or better yet, put it inside several boxes like those Russian nesting dolls—because what’s love without a little fun and suspense?

5. Plan an experience

Consider pairing the gift with an experience. A weekend getaway, a spa day, or even a romantic staycation can make the anniversary memorable.

A hand touches a tennis ball and wears three diamond tennis bracelets — Talk about a gift they’ll love-love.

A Toast to Ten Years

So, now that we’ve dropped this quick guide to the traditional and modern gifts for your 10th anniversary, you’re all set, right? We know there’s more to it than that. Just remember, this milestone is all about celebrating a decade of love and adventure. And we’re here to help. You can explore our collections of diamond rings, as well as earrings, necklaces, and tennis bracelets to find just the right piece for your darling. But we’re also happy to help customize something to suit your budget and preferences. Just reach out to hello@frankdarling.com or book a consultation to speak with our design teams in person or online.

A stack of wedding bands on top of one another with an Asscher cut solitaire engagement ring on the bottom of the ring stack — The Definitive Guide to Building the Perfect Ring Stack

A dainty emerald cut diamond stud earring — Emerald Cut Diamond Earrings Should Be Your New BFF

A Toi et Moi ring with a diamond and blue sapphire — The Hues of the Sapphire Engagement Ring

A double band east west set oval engagement ring is stacked on top of a north south set oval eternity band — The Eternally on Trend Eternity Band

Stephanie Dore

Stephanie is a jewelry lover, gemologist, and seasoned copywriter with a decade of experience in e-commerce and tech. A RISD graduate, Stephanie also studied at GIA and has worked in the jewelry industry for 20 years. When not writing about diamonds and jewelry, Stephanie is also a photographer and backyard flower farmer. She lives in Tacoma, WA with her two black cats.

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